Choosing the Number of Bridesmaids
Limiting the number of bridesmaids means cutting the overall wedding costs for flowers, gifts, makeup, luncheon costs and the rehearsal dinner. You should research potential costs before choosing bridesmaids to make sure you have enough money in your budget for their inclusion. Also, never ask a friend to be your bridesmaid if your only reason is that you were part of her wedding.
Choosing the Right Bridesmaids
Who do you want to turn to when important decisions arise; during your final days as a bachelorette; when you need a shoulder to cry on? If you want a drama free wedding, consider bridesmaids with the following qualities:
Cooperative: Since this is your special day, bridesmaids should be willing to wear a dress that may not look flattering or appeal to their personal preferences.
Reliable: There will be fittings, showers, rehearsals and the ceremony to tend to. Choose bridesmaids that will arrive on time and are ready to shine.
Helpful: Bridesmaids that are willing to help out throughout the process will make your life much easier.
Out of Town Bridesmaids
Another consideration is the additional costs and arrangements that are needed when you choose a bridesmaid that lives out of the area. She's going to need a place to stay when she attends pre-wedding events. It is common for the bride to foot the bill for out of the ordinary expenses. To keep these expenses down, try to find bridesmaid dresses that are available at stores nationwide and don't require bridesmaids to attend every bridal shower.
